Marriage Counsel

30 RULES FOR RESPONSIBLE HUSBAND & 30 RULES FOR GOOD WIFE......
1. Don’t ever beat your wife for any
reason. Prov. 19:11, Prov. 20:3
2. Don’t ever forget that your wife is
your greatest asset. Prov. 12:4, Prov.
18:22
3. Don’t ever forget to check the level
of peace of your wife. Prov. 27:17
4. Don’t associate with men that lack
credibility and generational mindset.
Prov.13:20
5. Don’t ever hurt your wife no matter
the level of insults passed on you. Col.
3:19, 1Pet. 2:19-20
6. Don’t ever wave off the ideas, advice or suggestions of your wife because of
your selfish interest. Pro. 1:5, Pro.
19:20
7. Never treat your wife as a servant.
Eph. 5:29
8. Never make your wife a negative
case study before friends and family.
Prov. 5:18, Prov. 21:23
9. Never doubt your wife no matter
what you know about her past. 1Cor.
13:5.
10. Don’t deny your wife of sex. 1Cor.
7:4-5.
11. Don’t be careless about the welfare
of your home. 1Tim. 5:8
12. Don’t compare your wife with
anyone. 2Cor. 10:12
13. Never cheat on your wife no matter
the condition. Prov. 6:32, Prov. 5:20
14. Never cut short the love you
showed to your wife, rather, water it, and nurture it for effective continuous growing. Eph. 5:28-29
15. Never disregard the effort of your
wife, rather appreciate her more and
more. Prov. 31:28b
16. Never discuss the weak points of
your wife at public opinion polls. Prov. 5:17
17. Don’t call your wife unpleasant
names such as prostitute, witch, fruitless entity, harlot, useless wife,
bastard, rather call her blessed,
precious, capable, beautiful and
virtuous woman. Col. 4:6, Prov. 31:28-29
18. NEVER EVER PLACE YOUR
FRIENDS, FAMILY OR WORK ABOVE
YOUR WIFE.
19. Don’t be self centered. Eph. 5:28,
Phil. 2:3-4
20. Don’t ever cook up plans against
your wife because of your lustful
desires.
21. Never set up a family without
having a family vision. Prov. 29:18, Hab. 2:2-3
22. Never make your wife feel inferior
and uneducated before your friends, family, anyone or even you the husband.
23. Never compare your wife’s attitude
with your one time girlfriend’s attitude.
2Cor.10:12
24. Don’t be lazy to cater for your wife
and family. 1Tim. 5:8
25. Never allow money to be the bond
of love in your marriage. 1Tim. 6:10
26. Never allow your parents or family
members to dictate the affairs of your home, remember, ‘’therefore shall a man leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife………’’. Gen. 2:23-24.
27. Don’t ever let your children come
between you and your wife. You
married your wife not your children,
remember they have their life to live and when married and gone, only your wife will still be with you, to cook for you, comfort you, refresh your body, soul and spirit in the bedroom. Matt. 19:6
28. Never hide any phone calls, text
messages, or password to mailbox
from your wife. Transparency is the ultimate key to continuous trust and confidence in marriage. Rom. 12:9-10
29. Never owe your wife anything,
always give her the very best; best in
love, best care, most precious things
and that which belongs to her. Rom.13:8
30. Never show a heart of ungratefulness to God and your precious wife, always and always be ever grateful for their presence in your life. Prov. 31:228b.
30 RULES FOR GOOD WIFE
1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.(Prov 15v1)
2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to your family and friends. You are each other's keeper.(Eph 5v12)
3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them.(Prov 15v13)
4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about.
5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.(Prov 11v22)
6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. (Gen 2v24)
7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.(Eph 5v33)
8). Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.(Deut 3v28)
9). Never be a wasting wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.
10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex (SS 7v12
11). Never compare your husband to your one time sex mate in bedroom.(SS 5v9)
12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.(Prov 31v23)
13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children(Eph 4v31)
14). Don't forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.(Prov 12v4)
15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.
16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.( 1 Sam 25v3)
17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don't waste your time looking up to them for a final word.(Luke 21v16)
18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?
19). Don't forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. (Gal 6v9)
20). If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always teamwork. (Gal 6v10)
21). Don't be too judgemental to your husband.(Eph 4v29)
22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even know that her body needs a bath.(Prov 24v27)(Prov 20v13)
23). Does your husband like less cooked food?, try to change your cooking.(Prov 31v14)
24). Never be too demanding to your husband, enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.(Luke 11v3)
25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty. (Prov 31v11)
26). Don't associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.(Prov 22v14)
27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.(Heb 13v4)
28). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.(Prov 22v6)
29). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason. (Prov 31v28)
30). A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife, pray always for your husband and family(1 Thess 5v17)
GOD WILL HELP US TO BE A GOOD HELP MEET 2 EACH OTHER IN JESUS NAME